♥Rids

Normally we feel so happy when we achieve something or when we get the desired thing. That’s one kind of happiness of people. The real happiness is when others feel happy just because of us…!!! And this kind of happiness we get when we help someone or when we reach their expectations or when we give loads n loads of happiness to them…!!! This kind of happiness I’ve experienced many many many times…!!

One rainy day, came across a small incident…A very old lady wants to go to her daughter’s house n it was raining heavily and she was asking all the passers by lift but no one were ready to help her out..Some were giving her harsh expressions…Some scolding her for stopping them in heavy rain hmmm…!!! Then I gave her lift and dropped her..And that i had something very nice feeling..Feeling of Happiness…She was telling all the above lines that no soul offered her lift..All were yelling at her and all..!! I don’t know y people yell at them when they ask lift..It will better if they just go away ignoring her…That’s far better than stopping n scolding her that very old lady who is very elder to all…!!! After all its people’ psychology..!! One more sweet moment is when I gave food to many poor people at temple…That day I felt so satisfied and so happy..!! Really it’s a great feeling every soul gets when they help anyone…!!! Each soul in this world can help how much ever they can..Within their means..!!!

And one very significant thing I wanna pen down in this post which was requested by Likita Mam…Mam you were telling me to pen down about this but due to lack of time couldn’t do that…Apologizes for that mam…!!!

I’ve seen many people helping beggars by giving money..It’s good but not the best way to help them coz its another way they become lazy and become addicted in begging…We are the real people spoiling beggars…If people don’t give money then there will be no beggar in this whole world…!! Rather than giving money its always better you give food which satisfies their hunger…! When we give money they don’t feel like going out and work or earn money in any means…! They don’t even get intension to earn a penny…!! But when we give food to them they will not get spoilt and they wont become money minded people…!! I personally have seen many instances near orphanage and at many places and states…!! If every one in this world gives only food or some old clothes to them instead of money then they will surely get the intension of going out for work and earning and there will not be any beggars also…!!!

Well I kindly appeal all the readers of my blog to help beggars in this way n not by giving money…!!! And hey people you too help some one within your means and see how great you feel and tell…!!!And if any of you have already helped then tell… Will be glad to know that..!!! And this is really a great feeling and it’s the real happiness in life we get…!!!

Tumne mohabbat ka matlab sikaya…

Tumne pyaar me nasha banaya…

Zaleel-e-Ulfat ka karwaya…

Nakam rahe taqdeer ne marwaya…

Ae zalim bande ko kyo haraya?…

Dil awaaz ko izhaar kehte ,
jhuki nigah ko ikarar kehte
sirf paane naam ishq nahi.
kuch khone ko bhi pyaar kehte .

rich people travel in cars
poor people travel in carts
but people like u
always travel in hearts.

Har phool ajab kahani ,
Chup rehna bhi pyar nishani ,
Kahi koi zakhm nahi phir bhi kyu yeh ehsas ,
Lagta dil ek tukda aj bhi us ke paas ….!!!!

Dont know why…but want pen down about Beer and its effects its draw backs…!!!

Many people have this beer…Some have regularly..While some have monthly once or twice..while some have in parties alone…Hmmmmm…But what ever it is…Good/Bad most of Indian girls like me dont like…hate it to the chore…!! Well frankly speaking there are more advantages than disadvantages…But then toooo…risk is always a risk…!!

Consensus at present amongst medical practitioners is that alcoholic consumption in moderation can lead to the longevity of a person’s life. Moderation is deemed to be anything from 1-4 standard alcoholic drinks a day. Taking this into consideration it would be fair to assume that 1-2 beers a day should place no harmful effects on your body, and indeed, may contribute to better health and a longer lifespan But this is not true at all times as there is alcohol in it..!!! Alcohol consumption on a reasonable and consistent drinking over a long period of time has been found to help reduce the risk of heart disease and stroke, help offset the probability of contracting age related diseases like Alzheimer’s disease, diabetes, Parkinson’s disease, Hodgkin’s and non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma, and pancreatic cancer…!!!

Doctors also recommend people to have beer for various reasons…It is not harm when people have it just in parties or once in a month but there are times where people who at a sudden get addicted to it where its very hazardous to health…!!hmmmm Well the other day one of my best buddy shras was asking me what will you do if your hubby drinks beer…???? Hmmmm obviously il tellll bigggest NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOO…!!! Il tell him i hate it to the chore (as there is alcohol is present in it…which very bad to health) n moreover i dont want my sweetheart’s health to spoil…!! She was also asking me if he is gonna be just a Party time Drunker??Hmmmm Well for this also il tell him i hate it to the chore..but cant and will not tell him to stop that habit/to put a fullstop to this habit coz i dont want his fun to be spoilt jus coz of me and no where in his he should feel that there is big fullstop for his enjoyment…!! So i can only just tell him i hate it..hope he understands it but if he doesnt then well il not tell anything if he just a party drunker that which will come very rare…!!! But stilll hmmmm many people like me will never like it…!!!! Hope shras you read this buddy!! and hey what will you do men????? And all readers what will you do if ur hubby has all these????

First there goes a great hats off to all the armed forces of our country..!!The great NSG (National Security Guard) people who came forward and saved many people from the terror attack..! And that was the worst terror attack which none of us can ever imagine..!! I guess all political people are of no use..!! Only the armed force are the best as they are the one who save all the time people at any course..!! Politicians are just money-minded people..!! One of my best teacher always tells ” One good Politician is enough to change the whole country..!” But there is no good politicians at all…!! All jus give words at the time of elections and then forget those words once they get their desired position..!! Though politicians cant do anything in these terror attacks..atleast they can help the country in developing in a lot more ways..!! But the only politician who impressed no no where each n every soul was impressed was and is the great ABDUL KALAM..!!! Hope more people like him come up in political field..!!

All in all once again a great hattss offff to all the armed force people who always work for our country…!! They are the only people who strive so much for the country n all credit goes to them not the politicians..!! But there are some brave politicians and also good politicians who have atleast put some efforts in the development of the country..!

So Happy…All happpies…I got My Sweet darling CellN73…!!! Soooooooooooo Happpppppppppy…!!!

When the shopkeeper gave it to my hand oh my god i was jumping n hugging my friends who also came…!! Alll smiles in my face….!!!

It so good that finally petrol prizes are down…hope it continous like this atleast for few months…..!! Thank god atleast five rupees is down..!!!

Today is my sweet collegues birthday…!!! She is also my very sweet,cool n best buddy of mine…!!!And i tell you she is very caring too…!!! Well that sweet baby’ name is prashanti..! Wish you many many happy returns of the day sweety..!!! On your birthday I wish you much pleasure and joy; I hope all of your wishes come true. May each hour and minute be filled with delight, And your birthday be perfect for you!! Once a year I get the chance To wish you birthday cheer. It pleases me no end to say, I wish you another great year. So happy birthday to you prashu, From the bottom of my heart. And may your good times multiply, Till they’re flying off the chart!!! Here is my sweet cake on your sweet birthday…!!!!! Enjoy Your B’day with loads n loads of fun..!!!

Readers dont get tired by seeing the length of todays post…!!! But coudnt ignore anything…!!!

Here starts the meeting of three good best people I’ve ever seen in my life after my birth…!!!! As I said in previous post when my bike got struck in water a guy came n helped in pushing it front..That guy was pushing my bike front wards n then I was able to push it so he went to his friend whose bike got stopped in water…So on the whole even those two guys were in trouble with their bike…Somehow reached a petrol bunk and while reaching there oh my god most of the vehicles going so fast where all the rain water splashed on my face and whole dress..Which was totally yaks n sick to the chore…!!!! Was again thinking y the hell I left so late when my area and the way to my house is so bad…!!

When I reached nearby petrol bunk that guy immediately came n told to come near petrol bunk so that can see whats the probs with my bike…Over there even his friend was trying to start his bike..When I went there I tried starting my bike n it started immediately…then we 3of us we two of us were taking our bikes on road n I was telling now again both our bikes will surely stop as there is so much of water and exactly it happened…!!!

Then again one among them came n started pushing my bike so far….my goodness I ve never seen such nice people in my life time…we three of us don’t know each other at all but then too these guys were so helpful to me…they started helping me without any second thought in their mind..!!! he pushed my bike so far that too tat heavy active…he didn’t allow me to push..he was telling he will push it and not a probs at all as even our bike is in same situation we three started speaking in hindi n english…!!

Finally reached a place where I had to go straight n these two buddies going right side or so…Then told them thank you so much for helping me though you guys weren’t aware of me…!! But even thank you is not enough for the help they did in that lonely road…Its so great of them…until my bike started properly they didn’t leave..how nice people man…!! Have told them blog address hope they see it…and comment I would be the happiest person in the world…!! Hope so they visit my blog…!!

From there I went straight n there water level was so high which made my bike drown half..!!! And it got struck in mud was not able to move it at all n this road was so horrible as not even one street light was there…Got so panicked was trying to push my bike so hardly but it wasn’t moving even a inch…Felt very exasperated..Sick…!! Totally helpless…!!! Couldn’t even call any of my friends for help as I didn’t have cell at all…!!!

Felt like yelling for help but that was a very silent calm street were there are no souls…!!! Again was thinking y did I leave office so lately man…!!!! But now waste of thinking or scolding the past…something got to be done to get out of that place…!! The only thing I could do at that moment was to pray god…!!! And saw a guy(uncle) coming in his cycle was shouting excuse me uncle excuse me…was bit relaxed seeing atleast one soul on that street…was asking that uncle to help me out n my god…!!!

He is again a great man like the other two guys…he pushed my bike till my house….n other side was also pushing his cycle…I was feeling so bad don’t know y..may be I coudnt help him out in any way other than pushing his cycle… And till my house its almost 6 kilometers…I ve never seen any person so sweet n understanding n having such a good n great helping nature man…!!! I was telling all these three guys the same…!!! And thanked the uncle so much for doing such a great favour nad for making me to reach home so safely…!!

Finally reached home at 11pm which is so terrific n worse..!! I don’t like mom being tensed in my case…but that day she was almost in tears waiting in front of gate for me…in her tension she started shouting at me…Nothing wrong in her yelling…any mom will obviously be very scared when daughter/son hasn’t returned home till 11pm…Was telling mom so sorry as it was purely my mistake starting from office so late an dafter she calm downed as I was so hungry without me asking her for dinner she came n fed me…That’s the mothers love…n that’s my sweet mom…!!!!!

Then was telling her about these three guys..She was also shocked n was so happy that coz of them reached home so safely…!!! She was asking y haven’t you taken alll3 guys contact number…But unfortunately don’t know how come In this tension of reaching home safely I forgot to ask their numbers…!!!! And two guys told their name but forgot that also…Hope they surely see my site n comment…!!! Waiting for their comment…!!!! And just remember that uncles name “SOLOMEN” Very nice person on earth I’ve ever seen…!!!! Once again thank you very very much for all your help on that night…!!!

Don’t know how to title this post…Whether “I met three good best people”

“I’ve never seen such sweet people”

“A very Bad Rainy day and a Good One Too…” well many titles come to my mind but I guess the title which I kept at present is a good one n best fit for the topic…!!!

Waiting for their comments hope moms wish come true…Hope she sees and thanks them…!!!!

Last Thursday is again a worse day but then again a good one too… Last Thursday left office late..Had to go in bus as I left my bike in my friend’s house..Me n my best buddy kanchan were waiting for bus n oh my god it came very late after an hour or so… and finally we got a  bus n had so much fun in bus..!!

It was almost like a bus ride in a river or a pool…I was very scared about reaching home safely that night…she reached after an hour r so n I reached my friends house in an hour..And first time it took almost 2hours to reach Anna Nagar from office ooooowww after all that’s the Chennai rain and its worse traffic…!!!!

After reaching my friends house took my bike n started all the way to my sweet home..There started deep fear in my heart as from golden flats there were very less people travelling and water was almost till knees n this made my poor active to drown till the silencer..Finally my bike stopped…I felt very worse n was thinking y the the hell I left office so late when there is heavy rain and roads filled with water!!!!!

Got so scared n was totally unable to push my bike n on top of that it started raining heavily..To make other vehicles alert I was catching the brake so that they will know that there is some vehicle got struck in middle and they will go side ways but a fellow who is totally brain less creature ive ever seen started coming near my bike though I was giving horn badly…!! Started yelling at him in Hindi n that fellow so bother less…seeing my bike almost falling down a guy came n was trying to help me out…!! With the help of three guys I reached home safely at night eleven pm which was totally terrific for my mom n me..!!!